There’s a limit to everything. And it’s important to know your limit. And right now I’m talking about people’s limits. Every person has a limit and it’s important to realise that if you keep pushing and pushing one day that person will break. But I think what’s more important to realise than realising that every single person has a limit,is that if you go over that line it will be too late. Because after you’ve crossed that line, you can’t go back and undo all of the things you’d done to make that happen. And everyone needs to understand this because sometimes the person that breaks could be someone that you love. In fact, most of the time it is someone so close to you and that is why you don’t realise that person has a limit. They’re so close to you that you just keep pushing and pushing and pushing , thinking they’re okay, they might get a bit mad but they’ll forgive me, nothing will happen. But then it does and you can’t go back. Even if you make up it won’t erase what’s happened, that person won’t forget cause sadly our brains like to remember the bad things that happen to us. I know this is kind of becoming a rant but I’m not just saying this for no reason because it won’t be just that person that will get affected. It will be you and it will gnaw at you until you break too. You might think that sounds a bit dramatic but it’s true. This isn’t the saddest thing though. the saddest thing is people don’t learn from their mistakes. if it’s someone close to you sooner or later they will forgive you but you’ll think it’s okay to push them again. And the cycle just goes on. until that person as well as yourself completely breaks to a point where you can’t be fixed.
The point is, everyone needs to learn from their mistakes because one day or another it will help whether it’s a small thing or a big thing.
Lots of love,